empathy

  • The Cost of Holding Space

    People often tell me I have a calming presence, that they feel safe telling me things they’ve never said out loud. I spend most days making other people feel cared for. I build little sanctuaries for them. I bake them bread. I answer the phone. I show up with a hug, a listening ear and…

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  • There is not a Nonchalant Bone in My Body

    I’m entirely fed up with how our culture has been made love so taboo. How openness is perceived as weakness. Being nonchalant is deemed cool and staying “chill” is worn like a badge of honor. I refuse. There is not a nonchalant bone in my body. As I have navigated my grief, my healing of…

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